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Can You Be a Loner Without Being Lonely?
On friendship, solitude and orchids
On friendship and solitude
In a time marked by a pandemic, economic recession, civil unrest, working from home and social distancing, relationships have been tested.
Many believe that a rise in divorce rates is imminent. It’s probably expected because financial turmoil can strain a marriage, and also couples these days have to spend more time… with each other.
Today, though, I want to consider our broader social networks and friendships. Specifically, I want to ponder whether being a loner can come with benefits.
Pandemic friendships: the orchid and the cactus
It’s human instinct to seek out connection. Now, with many living a simplified version of our previous lives, the specifics of our connections come into question.
Or rather, who we foster relationships with has always been important, but now we see the impact these choices have on our lives.
Many friendships have ended or changed during this time. Some have been torn apart by opposing political or pandemic views. Financial concerns would have slowly edged out others. And the friends who were really just acquaintances you mistook for…
